“There’s too much variety in the names to really get a sense of whether one particular one affects incoming messages,” he told me in an email.

“There are certainly trends -- people append the word 'taco' a lot, but that’s because we suggest it, kind of as a joke.

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She conducted a small study to determine whether there are trends in username choice, and whether the way we choose usernames has changed since Internet’s nascent days.

She surveyed over 300 usernames on OKCupid, coding them for information relating to the following categories: gendered, real name, numbers, trying to be funny, geographical reference, hobby/interest, profession, sex/love, physical attributes, nonphysical attributes, sentential, “random” words, meaning unclear.

They represented a dry humor than aligns with my own.

Admittedly, my personal history of username selection isn’t without blemishes.

I’ve swiped, I’ve messaged, I’ve boldly gone where no right-thinking relationship-seeker has gone before (to see a vampire movie on a first date), all in the name of finding love, or at least a cool guy to hang out with.

To this end I’ve been more successful, or perhaps luckier, than my friends.

It does, however, illuminate broader trends about how our online language use has changed over time.“Females tend to include more personal attributes in their usernames,” Herring says.

“Moreover, the kinds of attributes they mention differ from those mentioned by men.” While "cuddly," "silly," "sweet," and "faithful" were all used in the women’s profiles she surveyed, men gravitated towards "sexy," "cool," "mellow," and "great."According to Herring's survey, usernames on OKCupid are an average of 10.5 characters.

On my fourth or fifth date arranged through OKCupid I met my current boyfriend, who happens to be the most communicative, fun, and kind person I’ve met, online or off.

I’ll spare you the gush-fest; suffice it to say we’re an awesome match.

They were, to me, the pseudonym equivalent of a cheesy pickup line.