Enjoy your life no matter if you have or don't have kids. If I want to take a Vegas trip (3.5 hour drive) and not have to worry about anything, I can. :)So what happens when you get a girl that says she doesn't want kids, then pulls the 'oops I must have forgotten a pill'If YOU don't want kids then YOU should make sure you do all you can to stop that happening. Get a vasectomy, REALLY protect yourself from unwanted pregnancies.I can also barely afford myself, let alone another mouth. But like I stated, BASIC things like "smoker/non smoker" or any other field that is filled in with a drop-down box, does make it easier to eventually connect with someone. So what happens when you get a girl that says she doesn't want kids, then pulls the 'oops I must have forgotten a pill'If YOU don't want kids then YOU should make sure you do all you can to stop that happening. I know two couples in their 50's married, happy, no kids, they are both well educated and travel frequently. It will limit your choices, but I know lots of women who don't want kids. I applaud you for knowing what your limitations are. On some sites their are filter for people who don't want children. Some people do not want children and continue after they are older to not want children and that is fine, their decision.I feel that kids are an anchor, financially and freedom-wise.

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Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I'll express mine.

For seven years my husband and I danced back-and-forth around having a child. Claire was born when I was 36 and her father was 40.

I recently posted this in Facebook;"I was dozing off to sleep tonight, when I was awoken by the sound outside of a cat being attacked by some wild animal.

She had a vague interest in children when we first met, yet by the time we split, she couldn't complete a single sentence without talking about having babies.

Kids are fantastic, yet they're certainly not for everyone.

At my current age of 45 years, the last thing I wish to contemplate is diapers, pre-schools, babysitters, and saving for future college tuition.

Like I said, children might be very rewarding..not at this time for this man.

No, wait, that's just the four-year-old across the street having an I-Don't-Wanna-Go-To-Bed hissy fit.