Guys love to try to turn a conversation toward a sexual topic or make sexual innuendo.

As a general rule, never do this, in any way, ever, til death.

“This will give you a glimpse into their childhood and upbringing.” The thing to remember here is that no one gets to pick the family their born into (or um, wouldn’t you have picked Queen Elizabeth as your grandma?

) — so don’t judge them too harshly on what they tell you.

Instead, consider what matters to you in compatibility: do you care if their parents are separated?

If they’re an only child, is that a dealbreaker if you come from a big family?

“In addition, you get to learn about their friendships—which of course, ultimately says a lot about who they are.” Similar to ‘What do you like to do for fun?

’, this question will show the things that your date does to blow off steam.

If they mention their favorite vacation was skydiving in New Zealand, Patt says they likely love thrills and are pretty spontaneous.

But on the other hand, if their favorite type of vacation is relaxing on a beach with endless drinks, they might be more low key with a relaxed personality.

The point of a date is sure, to get to know someone, but to also have some fun. Abrell says a question like this one is funny but will also help you learn something about one another. Consider what magical strength they select: if they want to fly, they likely need to release stress or are curious, if they want to read minds, they may be more analytical.