You hear: He doesn’t want to hurt me because he cares about me so much, which means he didn’t mean it when he hurt me so I’ll forgive him anything.While sometimes it will be insecurity talking, if the person who is saying it keeps saying it, it’s likely to be a prelude to them acting up whether that’s cheating on you with someone who is more in their ‘league’ or just gradually whittling down your self-esteem as you try to show that you’re not on the pedestal that they appear to have put you on.Some say, at least 6 months if you were in a serious (years) relationship.

In fact, I recommend you start dating right away so that you’re able to start the healing process faster.

If someone just broke up with you is a good idea to just start dating right away.

If you just stay home and feel miserable, you’re just going to make things worse.

Remember that the way you act will dictate the way you feel.

Often people simply seem to think is disrespectful to the other person if you start dating right away after you break up with them.

And others will criticize you if you start dating right away when someone breaks up with you and say things like; “I guess she didn’t really love him that much, looks at her she’s already going on dates”.They’ll be respectful and they won’t try to force their own agenda.You hear: He really wants to stay in my life and I really want him in my life too. Hopefully when we’re friends, he might realise how great we could be together without the pressure of the relationship. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.A lot of people have relationship patterns which means that they have an awareness of what they are likely to do.They may have ideas to be different ‘this time’ but if they go to the trouble of saying this, it means they’ve resigned themselves to inevitably causing you pain.Sometimes by just acting happy even though your not, you will suddenly start to feel happy. If you don’t believe me just try it next time you’re feeling blue.