1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.Many of us don't like being called Mistress by people not our collared subs.

The other half of this is "Don't kiss my butt unless I TELL you to kiss it." Not everyone wants their hind parts sucked on. There are probably 10 guy subs for every female Domme.

Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.

Real Dommes expect you to NOT follow orders from anyone you have not agreed to submit to. but there are a lot more submissive males then Dommes online..

but there aren't that a lot of quality submissive males ,if you are a quality sub... Don't do the cyber kneeling, serving coffee, rubbing feet and other silly crap In the main room (leave it for the dungeon), we don't go for that. its nothing to be ashamed of its unfortunate that many forget they were new once, and look down upon newbie's. Please remember when you are experienced that you were new once.

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Don't offer to submit to the first Domme who talks to you.

Even if you are the kind of person who meets someone and wakes up married the next day, try to demonstrate a little more discretion in choosing someone who will expect actual obedience from you.

There are real people on the other side of that screen.