Lastly, I suspect that this is going to get jumped on by way more competent people in a minute or two but I don't think that the diff between Ne/Ni and Te/Ti are bullwack.In fact, I would say that any test that cannot adequately or accurately test this is crap.

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I wasn't, so I can't see where it would make much difference.

However, if you would have issues with a woman who was more assertive than yourself, you will need to find a way past those issues before you get involved with an assertive woman of any personality type.

It is not often that I meet people that I really admire (and are cute! Now, I know INTJ is not on the short list of compatible matches for INTPs (at least for male INTPs). We dated for 8 years before getting married 11 years ago, so we've been together a long time, and we are one of the happiest, most compatible couples I know. Always respect her intellect, and be very, very careful with criticism. (Usually along the lines of exchanging witty insults for 15 minutes straight before one of us runs out. There is a re-match every week.) The times he is pleasant though is great. In terms of achieving, I do alright, but I probably don't live up to my professional potential, but that is by choice. If you are only correcting the logic of her argument she will think you are getting stuck on the details and not seeing the bigger picture.

I'm sure it is that way for a reason, but I'd like to try to push my boundaries and embrace the differences while still having fun. Actually they are a great pairing, INTJs have all of the cognitive functions we don't and they use them in an order that are inspiring to us. It is because we both work hard at the relationship and follow our three rules: 1. But if you feel a good connection with your INTJ, you could be in for a very happy relationship. There is a re-match every week.) The times he is pleasant though is great. She uses her NT powers to great worldly success whereas I tend to be less practical and underachieving. I value other things besides climbing the ladder and making money. Essentially getting stuck on a single Te string of a massive Ni web that it is all meshed into. I think that a lot of the sites that list ideal pairings suck or aren't done by people who know what they are talking about.

Essentially getting stuck on a single Te string of a massive Ni web that it is all meshed into. It is because we both work hard at the relationship and follow our three rules: 1. Functions are much more reliable indicators to look at than lists that somebody pieced together. Most INTJs that I have found there heavily suppress their Ni and are super Te focused. Not that there aren't some great people there too but still..careful.

__________________ "Remind me not to let the INTP man the grill next time." "Hey who elected you the leader of this outfit?

He enjoys making plans more than I do, and I enjoy carrying them out more than he does, but these aren't strong enough distinctions that we have assigned roles based on them. one of the big issues we have is that I like to debate everything. I've taken a couple various function tests and the NE NI is in one point of each other adn the Te and Ti is in one point of each other.

Once we decide who is in charge of whatever thing, the person in charge makes the final say. I like to look at all sides of every coin including a few that I may have made up. and the N's and T's are both with in a couple points of each other. on the Intj forum there was a thread showing many results of one of these tests and this was not uncommon.

My husband and I share the duties of being assertive and decisive.

Neither of us really wants to be in charge all the time. We have a lot of the same interests and can talk about things without the misunderstandings that seem so prevalent with F types. it's natural and no harm meant, I am just talking.. For those that talk about ne vs ni dominant, I personally think it's a bunch of bullwack.

We liked each other from the day we met, but actually we didn't date until we had been good friends for about 4 years.