It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.

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I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.

Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.

It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.

Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.

I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.

This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.

Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.

When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.

Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.

I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!

A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.