The culture of friendship is very strong on Argentina. Maybe because one of my LTRS (5 years) was another porteo (born in buenos aires) who had this huge VERY CLOSE group of friends, exactly like my current boyfriend, and those people never, ever, in my 5 year relationship with him, made me feel good or welcome.

Anyways, since he started being with me, i noticed he had to cancel (he wouldnt tell me at the moment but confesed later) a lot of going out with his friends. 3 groups of around 5/6 boys (some girl here and there too) who get together once or twice a week. Im very shy and i figure they must all gonna be observing me and are kind of jealous that im spending so much time with their dear friend. He still is friends with them, and my relationship ended like 10 years ago.

We ve recently started oficially going out and we will soon do our first trip together. I find this to be the case about people that were born here in buenos aires.

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Hopefully they will embrace you and you will eventually become part of the group. I personally don't think it is good for people to not be able to spend time with their family/friends AND their significant other, together. Be friendly with them, don't be too quiet nor too talkative. If you get the vibe from his friends that they are resentful of the amount of time he is spending with you, then personally I would encourage bf to spend more time with his friends - maybe sometimes with you, and maybe sometimes without you. If so, this might be an opportunity for you to make a friend, and also to create a situation where you can do things as a mixed group.

I personally don't think it is good for people to not be able to spend time with their family/friends AND their significant other, together.

They are all the nerdy type, so they typically play board games, or go have dinner out or go watch a nerdy movie or do an outdoor barbecue in someones house. Since he is with me he CHOSE not to get together as much, so he can spend time with me, so all her friends are wondering whos the woman (should i say *****? Point is, my boyfriend decided to organize a dinner on saturday night at his place so I can meet ALL HIS FRIENDS. What i mean is: this cliques in this porteo people can be very close, and im kind of scared to be introduced to them, cause i have had bad experiences in the past. Yeah, you could start out by treating his friends like you would like to be treated.

On the other hand, i find it nice of him to want me to meet his friends, and i find it natural too, if we are in a serious relationship. Calling them nerdy and calling the movie's they watch nerdy says something about you. Yeah, you could start out by treating his friends like you would like to be treated. Im super nerdy myself, thats why we are a good match, i love doing all kind of "nerdy" stuff.

Take each relationship for what it is—a new, exciting adventure—and leave the past where it belongs.

I once knew a guy who stopped seeing a girl because she responded to his texts too quickly.They are all the nerdy type, so they typically play board games, or go have dinner out or go watch a nerdy movie or do an outdoor barbecue in someones house. Since he is with me he CHOSE not to get together as much, so he can spend time with me, so all her friends are wondering whos the woman (should i say *****? Point is, my boyfriend decided to organize a dinner on saturday night at his place so I can meet ALL HIS FRIENDS. What i mean is: this cliques in this porteo people can be very close, and im kind of scared to be introduced to them, cause i have had bad experiences in the past. LOL JK I remember your other thread.) LOL, yeah, the thread was about him and the fact that i slept with him relatively fast (3rd date) took the spotlight of the thread (people started saying he wouldnt take me serious ever) when the thread was about something different (and its also true sex is view different here than there, its unthinkable for a guy to think a woman is too easy for waiting 1 and a half months to sleep with him).On the other hand, i find it nice of him to want me to meet his friends, and i find it natural too, if we are in a serious relationship. But, anyways, things turned out great, we are going strong and serious. Suffered it once, was hard enough, im afraid of suffering it again. And i know his friends mean A LOT to him, so i really want them to like me, cause it is important for him.I also know women who have stopped seeing a guy because he contacted her too soon after a date, or wanted her to meet his friends after a week or his mom happened to be in town after a month or two so she was invited to brunch.Attention simply means a person wants to spend time with you—which is .Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.